Is 187 Safe? Meaning, Risk & Tips
The same word can mean very different things. Here's what to look for in your child's situation.
This one needs your attention — now.
Teens use "187" as a coded slang term for murder or serious violence, often picked up from music or online culture. It is typically used in contexts involving threats or discussions about crime. If you notice your child using this term, it is best to have a calm conversation with them to understand the context and ensure they are not being exposed to dangerous influences.
- Mentioned with a target's name to indicate an immediate threat of lethal violence
- Used while coordinating a location and time to commit a premeditated homicide
- Combined with images of weapons or evidence of a fatal violent act
What to Do If Your Child Is Using "187"
Every situation is different. Here are four approaches — pick what fits yours.
Start with Curiosity
Position yourself as a learner, not a monitor — teens respond far better when they feel respected than when they feel interrogated. Skip the accusations and lead with genuine interest.
Watch Before You Act
You don't always need to bring it up immediately. Give it a few days — observe the pattern, who they're with, how they're feeling. One data point isn't a trend.
Address What's Behind the Word
When '187' shows up, don't fix the word — check in on the child. Something heavier than slang might be going on beneath the surface.
Stay a Step Ahead
Sometimes slang moves faster than conversations can happen. Being informed isn't about invading privacy — it's about being ready to guide them when it matters.